Deep Vegan Thoughts: Thanksgiving Edition

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Hello.

Thanksgiving is coming up. I have been really wanting my family to not eat turkey.

(pics from the amazing documentary My Life as a Turkey. Watch online here)

I guess I am trying to feel like I’m making a difference and getting through to them.

I don’t feel like I am.

You know what though, tonight my 7 year old brother started talking about how cows were taken away from their moms in dairy farms.

I was like, “where did you learn that?” (I have not told him the details)

I asked him if he was vegan now? He told me he agreed with the vegan philosophy now but he still liked the taste of milk. He told me he won’t be eating meat any time soon. Though he told me we had to have turkey at thanksgiving cause tofurkey was not very good. But whatever, he’s thinking about it lol. I’ll let it work on him.

How adorable is that.

Supposedly the way to change people is to lead by example.

I guess the best thing to do instead of trying to guilt and force my family not to have turkey on Thanksgiving is maybe sponsor a turkey or give money to a sanctuary like The Pig Preserve. (one can donate on their Facebook page)

I really want to rescue a turkey though.

Do you guys ever get annoyed by Thanksgiving?

I have been thinking about Thanksgiving. It represents giving thanks, feeling grateful, peace, community, all those things.

Yet it is almost a farce.

A dead enslaved murdered animal is on the table while we talk about all the great stuff in our lives.

I don’t like that.

Turkeys should be free.

When I tell people about what veganism is now I feel I have a much better grasp on what it is.

It’s a philosophy. It promotes the ideals of freedom, justice, equal rights.

It’s really such a beautiful philosophy and ideal.

I never cared much about liberty and justice for all till I started learning about veganism.

I definitely agreed there should be liberty and justice for all, but I never truly cared. It was never personal.

Even in school when I was studying philosophy and I was reading thousands of pages of discussions about virtue and justice and what not, it never meant much to me. I was like, what’s the big deal–yeah yeah justice, moving on.

my college (st. john’s college-the great books school)

But Veganism makes these values a big part of my life. Just the thought of what I have seen done to animals, and how horrific their treatment is…makes me care about justice.

I think about pigs screaming.

And I care.

Yeah I guess I never was one to want to change the world. I was not very idealistic.

But now I believe in life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness for all beings.

(I also believe in love).

Never thought that veganism would make me better like that.

Having seen what I have seen now, in a way, the world makes more sense.

When I first read about the Holocaust, I couldn’t wrap my head around the fact that this had happened only 50 years ago. It didn’t make sense that people could let something so evil happen.

Now I see that that same kind of thing is happening right now to animals. We’re just blind to it.

This kind of thing is a part of life and a part of human nature.

We are so easily convinced that certain lives are worth less than others.

This is so clear to me now that I feel proud and like I am a light for others. I hope I inspire people by telling them humbly what veganism is all about to see the truth.

It reminds me of the story of Plato’s Cave. Do you know it?

Basically, these people are chained in a cave, watching shadow theater on the wall. They think the shadows are all there is to life and they are really happy in the cave cause that’s all they’ve ever known. But one guy  breaks free from his chains and crawls toward the light outside. At first the light blinds him and he’s like WTF. Then he sees real life and he’s like, “My life is a lie” and he goes back to the cave to tell the other people about the world outside the cave, but the people in the cave are like “Go away. You’re crazy”. He has to drag people or guide people to the light,  kicking and screaming.

The philosopher’s job is to guide people out of the cave even though they won’t want to see the light at first.

People don’t want to see the truth of what’s happening to animals. I definitely didn’t. I avoided learning about veganism for decades because I didn’t want to give up cheese.

But now I’m a philosopher so it’s ok.

Don’t hate people for living in the cave.

Don’t hate people for eating turkey on thanksgiving, I guess? What do you think.

Question: How do you deal with Thanksgiving? 

Also, there’s a lot of cool vegan shoes on my vegan shoes pinterest board in case you need non leather footwear.

 

Thoughts on Freedom

I listened to this audiotape today from a dating guru. She is the archenemy of The Millionaire Matchmaker, Patti Stanger, because this person is a real matchmaker, whereas Patti is …insane.

The dating guru (April Beyer is her name) has an audio series you can buy called Smart, Sexy, Soulful dating. I held out for months (reading her blog) but finally was like I need to know the secrets.

I listened to them today.

The first secret seemed to be… basically everyone is hiding themselves and that is ruining their love life. You don’t have to change yourself, you just have to stop pretending to be something you’re not, hiding who you are, or not being upfront about who you are. You could be the perfect match for someone but no one would ever know, because you won’t reveal your true self.

She made it seem like if you don’t stop hiding who you are, you will never find love.

Is there anything more motivating then “do what I say or you will never find love”?

lol.

Tonight I decided to post an artsy picture I had made with tons of photo filters …of me pole dancing on instagram. It took me like an hour to think about if I should post it. Then my hand did it for me. But then five minutes later, I had second thoughts and I decided to delete it.

pole dancing 2

Then I thought about how April Beyer said that if you don’t reveal who you are, you will never find love.

Damn.

I decided NOT to delete it.

In that moment I had a thought.

I was like, I really want to just never think about the whole army of possibly disapproving instagram followers again.

Once and for all, I just wanna

LIVE FREE.

I felt like I could delete it, and always think about what everyone might think of me…over and over…with every step I take. Every breath I take…every move I make…

Or I could just never think about it again.

Break through that invisible curtain of whispering voices.

And just

Be free from it all.

Do what I want.

Never think about offending someone with who I am again.

April Beyer says, my love life depends on it, which is I know what gave me the sudden motivation.

I gotta find love one day.

Have you ever heard this quote:

“One should as a rule respect public opinion in so far as is necessary to avoid starvation and to keep out of prison, but anything that goes beyond this is voluntary submission to an unnecessary tyranny, and is likely to interfere with happiness in all kinds of ways.”

― Bertrand Russell

I feel like I kind of had a realization tonight.

It’s really important to not listen to anyone’s opinion but your own.

That’s my feeling.

Listen to one well meaning person, and your dreams are crushed.

I feel at some point we all need to take a stand and decide to be “you” no matter what anyone else says.

Maybe your stuff you create will suck, but at least some person will be able to find your body of work and perhaps laugh at the irony of how hard you’re trying and how bad your stuff is—and they’ll appreciate you for that.

I know I would.

Is this about animal rights? Not really.

But I guess it’s about Freedom. And so is animal rights.

Thanks to “seeing the ghosts”, freedom became one of my values, and deeply meaningful to me.

Now I understand–To enslave anything is repulsive. Many don’t see that animals are still enslaved.

But are you still enslaved? Are you truly free?

To be truly free you have to make the decision to be who you are and do what you want to do.

You have to stop caring about what others think.

Maybe that is the final step to being truly free.

What do you guys think?